Flying Monkeys: How Narcissists Ruthlessly Use People to Destroy You
In Love Is Blind, this isn’t love.
It’s manipulation.
In this video, I break down one of the most misunderstood dynamics in toxic relationships — how someone slowly turns you into the problem.
👉 From DARVO (Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim and Offender)
👉 to triangulation and flying monkeys
👉 to gaslighting and scapegoating
You’ll see how manipulation doesn’t always look aggressive.
Sometimes it looks calm, convincing… and socially supported.
And that’s what makes it so dangerous.
Because at some point, it’s not just them manipulating you.
👉 You start questioning yourself.
👉 You start doubting your perception.
👉 You start becoming the version of yourself they created.
This video explains:
why manipulators shift the narrative
how they recruit others to support their version of reality
why the “scapegoat” is often the most perceptive person in the room
and how contempt quietly destroys relationships from the inside
If you’ve ever felt like:
“Wait… am I the problem?” — this is for you.
Because sometimes…
👉 You’re not the problem.
👉 You’re the first person who saw it.