Author name: Gosia Miela

How “helpful” behavior can sometimes destroy your self-confidence? In Love Is Blind Sweden, many viewers focused on the drama.But there was a deeper psychological dynamic underneath it all. Some people don’t give advice to help.They give advice to position themselves above others. In this video, we explore: the psychology of know-it-allsunwanted advice as subtle controlwhy […]

Flying Monkeys: How Narcissists Ruthlessly Use People to Destroy You In Love Is Blind, this isn’t love. It’s manipulation. In this video, I break down one of the most misunderstood dynamics in toxic relationships — how someone slowly turns you into the problem. 👉 From DARVO (Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim and Offender)👉 to triangulation and

Many people feel nervous before their first therapy session, often thinking they need to prepare what to say or already know their problems clearly. But that’s not how therapy works. The first session is not a test or performance. It’s simply a conversation where you show up as you are — even if you feel

Love Is Blind reveals more than a dating experiment — it exposes how we actually choose partners. In this analysis, we explore why people so often end up in relationships that don’t work, even when they feel intense at the beginning. You’ll learn:– why we confuse emotional intensity with compatibility– how projection shapes early attraction–

Why Trauma Makes You Hate Yourself? Many people carry a quiet belief that something is wrong with them.That they are too emotional. Too distant. Too controlling. Too withdrawn. This belief often grows from years of misunderstanding survival patterns that were formed in childhood. In Gestalt therapy, these patterns are known as creative adaptation — intelligent

If you never heard these words as a child,maybe you can hear them now. This short, gentle story is about inner child healing, self-worth and emotional safety. It speaks to the part of you that still carries unmet needs, unspoken emotions and the desire to feel seen and understood. This story reminds you that: This

If you never heard these words as a child, maybe you can hear them now. This short, gentle story is a reflection on inner child healing, self-worth and emotional safety. It speaks to the part of us that still carries unmet needs, unspoken emotions and the longing to feel seen. Through simple, compassionate words, this